If we still love the one who hurt us, we won’t play them (too bad). I feel like yall do that too. I’ve seen a guy cheat. Apologize. Have the girl take him back. And she treats him like dogshit for like 12 years and he takes it cause he feels bad. LOL

True!!

So ladies what should be done to yall if you stray. Hypothetically speaking. I mean what if our souls get murdered??

Yes, it is that deep for some women. If you really are in love and committed to a n*gga, I understand the need to slash a set of tires. The point is the female is hurt tremendously and she want you to really feel her pain. Messing with a man finances, will do that!

Now would I do it? I have an aversion to going to jail for any reason, so that would put me in the “most likely not” category. (But I guess I need to keep my first-time-offender status in tact, just in case).

Bahama — YUP! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. You can take 5 of the sweetest, most nurturing women on the planet. Put them together……….

Pack of wolves! LOL — I’m gonna have to do a full Ask A Girl article on why women are so hard on each other.

I agree, pride comes with the package for a man - and that’s okay with me! It can be a bad thing, but when it comes down to it, a MAN will appreciate you for checkin’ him about it. Or it can be good - like a man doing what he has to do to provide for his family (and I’m not saying it has to be illegal). Women have the pride thing going on too - I know when I was young and immature, I had tendencies of being crazy, but I would never do something like that even though I thought about it and you know why - PRIDE. I was not going to let a dude know that he got to me in a way that would have me act a fool!!!! NO SIR! Now, of course, I wouldn’t do thing b/c because I’m mature and have been through a myriad of experiences that I would not do something silly like slashing tires and all of that - WTF - for what? That is doing nothing but adding to a brother’s ego when he or the whole thing isn’t even worth it! Too much time and energy wasted because please believe me, it comes back around. It may not come in the same form that you dished it out, but please believe me people, you don’t have to do a thing - and that goes for men and women - you will get it back!

Some things that people may do in retaliation actually make them look real silly for doing it!

Realistically, no matter who cheats….it’s not that serious although, it may hurt. But hurt goes away and some feel like tearing something down of the “cheater’s” or doing harm towards the person will make that feeling go away, but it’s only temporary. I’m not trying to call anyone out but that’s ‘hood’ if you’re over the age of 25 and damaging property or physically hurting someone (most likely they don’t have anything to lose). I know dudes who have females friends that will have their back or hell some random crackhead for all that to get the chick back. If you’re younger, then it’s just that being young. Now, for a woman that has a passion to hurt the guy, there are better ways to get back that won’t get you in trouble legally. Ways that will linger and eat him up on the inside, if he liked the female. Or something to put a dent in his reputation, if the female is really trying to do some “get back”.

I’m not for any of it, I say fuck’em and move on, too many men out here to waste my energy on one that’s a fuck up.