Icabod Calls Black Women Out
I.M. Haight
11 August 2008
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This is something that has pissed me off for years. I am a black man and I love black women but I don’t think you love yourselves. First off, there is nothing wrong with you. And for that matter, there has never been anything wrong. Despite what the media portrays or what you believe, you are by far the strongest, smartest, most resourceful, most devout, most beautiful, and downright damn finest creatures walking this earth. You built this nation and continue to be the world’s backbone, yet the majority of you don’t realize it. I will admit some fault lies with the opposite sex and the long term demeaning of women. However, the bulk of the fault lies within each individual woman who does not realize and claim her God given power.
Then there is the mantra. “Why aren’t there more black women in the media?” The complaint that comes directly after that deals with the complexion of the black women who do happen to make it. Valid points, but answer me this. Why were breast implants, collagen injections, and rump plumping procedures invented?
To emulate you.
Because white women lacked the proportions that the white man coveted. The shape and stature that black men have loved for so many years. Miscegenation started when white men forced themselves onto slaves, long before “mixed”(I hate that fucking word….another blog, another time) girls took over video shoots or magazine covers. The slave owners could not resist the obvious strength and resilient beauty of the black woman. So, before you are so quick to say that nobody wants you, remember that everyone does.
To the black woman who wears tons of makeup.
Stop.
Your skin was made the perfect shade in God’s eyes. To the black woman who feels she is only worth her body.
Stop.
You have blood of kings and queens in your veins. To the black woman who pushes things up and lets things hang out.
Stop.
The world already wants your body so get your mind and spirit on the same level. To the black woman who only checks for an account balance before saying “I do”.
Stop.
Because you have been blessed with a spirit and will to get your own. To the black woman who is always critical and negative…
Stop.
We long for your support. To the black woman who is giving up on the first night.
Stop.
We long to respect you. To all black women; there is nothing wrong with you. In fact, everything is all right…
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Nicely put. *finger snaps*
But is it possible for black women to love themselves? Don’t get me wrong there are a few that do (myself included, but i’m a totally different breed, :-)) but most of us don’t, beacuse they can’t see it. What do we see all the time? Men telling us we ain’t sh!t, society telling us we ain’t sh!t and other black women telling each other they ain’t sh!t. And the last one is really (I believe) where the problem is. Men leaving us cause we are too strong minded, too independant, but that’s okay because we can find someone that will love us for that. Society showing us the light skined and white women in ad’s, on t.v and just about everywhere but that’s okay too cause we know they wanna be like us anyway. But what do you do when your own, someone that goes through the same thing you do everyday, someone that looks like you even, doesn’t give you the respect, backstabs and try’s to bring you down.Jealous of whatever you’ve accomplished but can’t or i should say won’t praise you for it. Who do you turn to then?
So I say can black women love themselves when we can’t even love each other?
11 August 2008 at 8:51 am