Ask A Guy - Do men like for women to play hard to get?
Preston Swagger
16 September 2008
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Q: Ask A Guy - Do men like for women to play hard to get?
A: Some of them do. But that’s not what this question is about.
This is a cosmetic question. I call it that because it doesn’t really get to the heart of the matter. Some men like the thrill of the chase. Some don’t. The guys who do like that thrill will appreciate your playing hard to get. The ones who don’t…won’t. It’s a crap shoot. Good luck.
But that’s not really what you want to know is it?
Because while the “hard to get” question is different on a case by case basis — here’s something that isn’t — worth. Worth is, and will always be connected to how hard a person has to work to attain something. I’ll value my house more than my apartment. I value my car more than I did my bike.
Now some women think that “playing hard to get” makes the guy work “harder” thereby appreciating you more. Is that true…
Not really.
Playing hard to get doesn’t necessarily make a guy work “harder” – it just makes him work more. And those aren’t the same things. When I dump a pile of clean clothes on my bed to fold – I have more work to do. I’ll sit there and fold my shit while I’m watching SportsCenter and talking on the phone.
I’m not working hard.
When I sit down to setup a new website or write a new article…I’m working hard.
There’s a reason why it’s called “playing” hard to get – because that’s what you’re doing. You’re playing—we try a little more but in the end it probably won’t make much difference. Don’t make me work more—make me work hard.
How do you do that?
By knowing what you’re worth!
By not accepting my second invitation so readily when I broke the first one at the last minute. By not standing for it when I show up late and it didn’t involve a birth, death, or burning orphanage. By not letting me use the words “first” “date” and “drive” “thru” in the same sentence. By not fucking me 90 minutes after you’ve met me. By seeing if I remember ANY of the shit you said on the first date when we’re on our third. By not letting me draw you into a sexual conversation on our second phone call.
Don’t “play”. Don’t put up a false front. Don’t be a bitch. Don’t be a pushover.
Know you! Know what your kiss is worth. Know what your touch is worth. Know what your head is worth. Know what them draws are worth… And don’t let me have any of it until I’ve earned it. Really showed you I deserve it…
THEN…
Give it to me!!
–Preston
Sometimes I feel like I’m betraying my gender when I answer these questions—but if you ask me—I’m gonna tell you the truth. Didn’t you know…I’m CERTIFIED
I see you Mandii – I didn’t forget about my obligation – I got you this week!
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Now Preston, this is some real shit right here!!! You’re not betraying the men out there b/c even when women (for the sake of this posting) know the truth, they still won’t make the right decision Some people can’t - and those are the ones who don’t know their worth for themselves, so no matter what you tell them, it won’t make a bit of difference. So fellas, no need to worry, the game will forever exists - and you’ll forever be playing russian roulette! Don’t be mad when you catch a case (a medical one)!
“then…give it to me” HILARIOUS!! I LOVE IT!! You know a woman knows when you walk into the room whether or not she’s gonna give you that ass - so if you’re still around after about a week or so, don’t worry - you’ll be gettin’ it - keep on doing what you’re doing, she’s only tallying up points - the HEAD DOCTOR PERFORMING SURGERY ONLY - will be in the building when she decides to give it to you. LOL Your efforts will be worth it!
16 September 2008 at 7:57 am