Ladies, jump on the poll!
January 9, 2009 by J (Preston)
Filed under Ladies, Polls | 400 views
Today’s poll is simple. How many of you have cheated in a relationship? Not when you were a sophomore in high school. Not when you were on a “break”. Not when you were “sort of dating” and you weren’t sure if it was exclusive. The real deal. There was an understood relationship between you and another person and you strayed. Men are always assumed unfaithful. Let’s find out the numbers on the ladies.
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question should have just two options..
a) yes
b) no but i’m lying
i’ll refrain from further commentary til i see the results LOL
I have never cheated, and I’m almost 100% certain that I never will. If I’m thinking about you, I’m just going to leave. However, I’ve yet to have responsibilities/possessions like sharing an apt, kids, etc to prevent from giving the 2-finger salute. Who knows when all that is play? I still think I’d leave first, though. I am not to be shared.
damn that spam shot got me too lol
AT — I spit out some water laughing at that!!!
Reina — Yeah…nothing about “queen” and “sharing” really go together now do they??
Results so far:
Once = 15%
More Than Once = 38.5% (interesting)
Never = 46.2%
See, that’s 100% cheating right there because you know the “Never” is lying. It’s that deep-seated lie that they been doing so long even they believe their own bullshit. You know how women think! They look for loopholes and if they can’t find any, they create em. I bet at least half of “Never” category RATIONALIZED their way into it.
-Oh, I was 16. It doesn’t count anymore. NEVER
-Well I haven’t cheated on THIS man. NEVER.
-There’s Tom, Dick, and Harry but the first two cheated on me too. ONCE
Shit like that. Bullshit rationalizing just so they could look good in the mirror. I wish I was the guy in the mirror like in Snow White cuz I tell the truth.
Mirror Mirror on the wall, am I an honest and wholesome woman?
NO BITCH! YOU’S A HO!
@ AT:
All the quick to call a woman a ho talk is the flipside of the logic of the women you say rationalize their indiscretions. There are women who haven’t cheated, especially because a woman’s reputation is a lot mmore tenous than a man’s. Why throw that away over some quick dack when you can just up and leave, get your fix, and then start shopping for the next boyfriend?
And FYI - there was a period in time where I had never cheated - AFTER having been in two adult relationships that lasted both lasted more than 18 months. But my third boyfriend got stepped out on, first emotionally and then physically.
I wouldn’t repeat that behavior because it is petty and vindictive, and will never let another person mistreating me serve as justification for letting my morals fall by the wayside. Plus, I’ve found that erasing that person’s existence out of your life is much, much more effective.
My vote was never, and I meant NEVER. What’s the point? Being “in a committed relationship” is a chance to see how deep you can go. How close can you connect? When and /if you discover the growth in the relationship is no longer there, that is when you realize “you” have grown and then it’s time to say goodbye. With love and respect.
I know many men and women do NOT see it this way, but I am not all men and women, therefore ….Anthony!!! Don’t doubt the vote. Not everyone, male or female, lies.
Anthony, you my friend, are HILARIOUS!!!!
Even as a woman, it would almost be hard for me to believe that a woman was telling the truth if she said she never cheated. However, I do actually know a person who hasn’t cheated in her life. It’s just who she is and some women are truly like that.
Many people though, have to go through it to find out that it’s silly - but that’s all apart of growing up and in the end, it makes you a better person.
I guess my question is: What do people define as cheating? To me, it’s not just physically being involved with someone else. Some people may think flirting is cheated b/c it’s a conscious effort of luring another person in some way, to other’s it’s not. So, maybe there is a chance that AT is right about women rationalizing something so that it can fit what we believe should be the case for ourselves. Who knows.
Updated Results:
Once = 16.3%
More Than Once = 41.9%
Never = 41.9%
So apparently our readers are either NEVER cheating, or they are GETTIN IT IN!!